чем хуже, тем лучше

Focusing on what you don't want has as much attracting power as focusing on what you do want. Because focusing on what you dislike and don't want keeps it ever so closer to you, whatever you don't want will keep showing up in your life. Whatever you don't like will keep re-appearing in your life.

We enjoy freedom only when we are able to still the mind and choose our thoughts. There is freedom, when we are able to decide which thought to think and which one to reject. We live in freedom, when we are able to stop the incessant flow of thoughts.

~Remez Sasson