Having the courage to be disliked means being able to risk rejection, judgement, and abandonment. It means living honestly. Having radical understanding of what motivates your conflicts. Having radical understanding of your feelings. It means, trying to connect without pretense. Offering kindness and tenderness because it is what feels right, not because you want to be applauded or because you fear what will happen if you do not. It means setting boundaries and saying "no" even if you are not sure how the other person will respond. It means not fearing assertiveness. It means understanding your growth won't be for everyone. That some people will see your self care as an affront to them. That means they aren't where you are, yet. But it doesn't mean you need to go back. Having the courage to be disliked means having opportunity to be truly seen and then truly liked by those around you. It opens the door for strong and healthy relationships with yourself and others.

https://abetterlifetherapy.com/blog/having-the-courage-to-be-disliked

 

 No one is coming to save you, except you.

“Life is tough but at the same time a wonderful gift”

-SUSBS

“Evolution... Sometimes a random force shakes things up” 

-SUSBS

 "Think of a business as a node diagram or brain map. Each node is a feature of product the business offers to make money or increase marketing or whatever. Those nodes connect to each other in unique ways that define the business. It's a good way of finding out what the command center of a business proposition is, and which areas we want to focus on first."

~SUSBS

Uncertainty is simply an indeterminate state requiring thinking. Fear is the absence of data points. Data points result from turning uncertainty into options and ultimately a path forward. The path forward creates the data points and erases fear.

~SUSBS