Aquarius Part 1

Step 1
Engage is some intellectual rapport with your Aquarius friend or acquaintance. There's nothing that an Aquarius appreciates more than mental stimulation. Talk about politics, philosophy , psychology and science to really get her gears turning.

Step 2
Avoid letting yourself take anything personally in any kind of debate that may naturally occur between you and an Aquarius. It is Aquarius' nature to grow extremely opinionated and contrary while debating and he may even take the exact opposite position on a topic to simply force you to see the other side. They are constantly questioning ideas, and while they may be very dogmatic about a concept one day, they might not be the next. Do not let this get to you. If you are bothered by having your ideals coming into question, decline to participate in debate.

Step 3
Expect an Aquarius to be unpredictable. She may be gregarious, personable and extroverted one day and be quiet and thoughtful the next. She is also given to wild experimentation in her way of doing things. Do not be disturbed by this, it simply comes along with the type of person who is constantly questing for some kind of truth.

Step 4
Grow a bit of a thicker shell if you're the sensitive type, because Aquarius tends to "call it like he sees it." This can be viewed as overly assertive and tactless by some, but Aquarius is just trying to cut past the fluff so that he can get to the center of the matter. If an Aquarius touches on your insecurities or hypocrisies (big or small), it's better to listen to what he has to say than get angry at him because it is more productive.

Step 5
Understand that Aquarius can be a very unemotional and detached sign. When growing to be closer and closer friends, you may intuitively start expecting a more sensitive side to emerge that you can open up to. Don't be disappointed if this does not happen. You can still pour your heart out to an Aquarius and explain every overpowering emotional experience you've ever undergone, and she will listen with her undivided attention. It is simply that she processes these things more like a scientist fascinated by how you work, than a sympathizing ear. This does not mean she doesn't love you or care about you--it's just the way she is.

Aquarius people are original and do not follow anyone else. They enjoy being different from others. The personalities of most Aquarius people are progressive, liberal, with a fixed opinion. Because of Aquarius inflexibility they will have conflicts with many people. They ignore what others think and go off on their own way of thinking. They think of boredom in the terms of a disease and try to avoid it as often as they can. They fully expect others to accept them exactly as they are, or they don't have much use for them in their lives.

They have an unmistakable stubborn streak, but when left to be themselves, they make unusual and endlessly interesting people to be around.

Aquarius people seem to live in their own minds. They are open-minded and seek knowledge. They do not let their emotions get involved in their decisions. Therefore their judgments are done objectively. They tend to have a mistrust of emotions, which results in inner conflicts with themselves. Aquarius people are outgoing and people oriented. They can tolerate most people’s weaknesses. They are often concerned with the well being of the world. They do not get to close in relationships because they prefer to stay distant from others.
Independence is important to Aquarius and they will sacrifice anything to keep it. If they begin to feel trapped they will try everything to get free. They enjoy seeing others happy. Aquarius people want to do something important and meaningful in their life. They are creative and imaginative. But they are not interested in doing any hard work. They prefer to come up with an idea and let others do the work. They like to act like an expert in any field even though they might not know much about the subject.
Aquarius people are not quick to point out other’s faults. They enjoy arguing with others as an intellectual exercise. They take joy in verbally provoking people who they see as dull. They are determined not to be like anyone else. They are very kind people. Aquarius people are easygoing, honest, helpful, and reasonable people. They believe in live and let live. They are never boring and can change other people’s lives for the better.
Aquarius people who are in love focus all their interest into that one person. Their being seems to be on a higher plane while in love. They are very sincere, friendly, and liberal individuals. They enter social relationships prepared to give the best of them self. To keep an Aquarius person’s love you must love them completely and give them their freedom. Most Aquarius people are interested in books, science, and gadgets.