In both child rearing and love relationships, we will inevitably encounter the same hindrances as we do in sitting meditation. We will desire to be somewhere else or with someone else. We will feel aversion, judgment and fear. We will have periods of laziness and dullness. We will get restless with one another, and we will have doubts. We can name these familiar demons and meet them in the spirit of practice. We can acknowledge the body of fear that underlies them and as a way t deepen our love.
Mindfulness is a technique that a person uses to become aware of their thoughts. It is similar to meditation except, instead of letting thoughts flow away, you bring them in and study them.
Part of the idea of mindfulness is to recognize thoughts and then be able to let them go freely. Many times people struggle with their thoughts when trying to meditate. If a person first practices mindfulness they will be able to train themselves to accept a thought, let it go, and move on. They will be able to stop their thoughts from ruling or controlling them when they are trying to reach that meditative state.
Mindfulness is recognizing that the mind is always thinking. Thoughts are constantly coming and they can really clutter up the mind. Mindfulness allows a person to judge these thoughts and get rid of the useless ones.
Usually done in a meditative state, mindfulness can be done whenever a person likes. It does not require sitting or being in a meditative position. A person can practice mindfulness while doing almost anything. It is simply the practice of recognizing and processing all thoughts that flow through your mind.
Inner chatter is very distracting. It is something that many people have a hard time dealing with. They may even be kept up at night because of this endless chatter. This is where mindfulness can be of benefit.
Being able to practice mindfulness gives a person control over their mind. It allows them to manage the chatter so they can gain mastery over their thoughts.
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